We’ve been together for 30 years, fell in love at first sight, and have been working together as well as sustaining an amazing, amazing relationship ever since.
We are going to reveal in these blog posts a little of what we’ve done and what we believe has contributed to us becoming the greatest couple on earth!
When we say we’re going to show you how we became the greatest couple on earth, we are definitely biased but really it’s our way to say that we believe the kind of relationship that we have , by the world’s standard, is the greatest kind, and we believe it is possible to go from not so good, to great! The magic word being: becoming…
Yes we fell in love at first sight, so we had an advantage there, but we’ve had to go thru many journeys through our 30 years so far that have ranged from exhilarating to terrifying to everything in between and frankly we realize that many couples would have been blown apart by what we've been through but we did not!
Nothing is perfect… nothing is easy but we are here to show you as living proof that you can find, sustain and create « the greatest» relationship possible.
The best way to guide or teach is thru example so we will share with you some of our personal stories, tricks and tips to achieving the greatest relationship!
One of the most important thing we notice is how people always get exciting about the beginning of a relationship, meeting someone, how that will make them feel… …they get thrilled about the first stages, they get excited about getting married, about the first kiss , the first time they’ll make love the butterflies that are only supposed to last a little while….
but society rarely puts any emphasis on getting excited about sustaining a relationship, about how exciting it is to spend years with the partner of your choosing…about how exciting it is to change together to grow together… we’re trained to believe that a long-term relationship is about getting old, losing it, jail time or worse we’ve heard someone say recently a death sentence…
How did we get from being so excited in the beginning to meet that special someone to comparing that relationship to a death or a jail sentence???
Well we have spent 30 years together! And we are still so excited about the next 30.
We still love spending so much time together… we crave time together… we support and admire each other and we could never imagine the world without each other….
We are as excited about being together as we were in the beginning of our relationship.
How did we achieve this?
well, this is where we will share some of our knowledge and experience with you!
We’ll cover some of these points:
Retraining your brain about long-term relationships
Covering the basics:
Saying I love you/showing affection/
Taking the other for granted
Becoming best friends
Being a super fan of eachother
Cultivating a healthy obsession for eachother
Recognizing eachotther’s humanity meaning: cutting eachother some slack
Recognizing eachother’s superhumanity at the same time
Encouragement: helping eachother reach our individual and couple potential)