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During our thirty years plus together we have come across many, many couples as you can imagine. Some get it right, others well… time always tells. There’s a particular warning sign pertaining to change that we’d like to explore this week that all couples should be aware of. We call it the “Salsa Syndrome”! Let’s get it straight here peeps, There is absolutely nothing wrong with Salsa itself or any other activity you choose to spend your time on. The “Salsa Syndrome” has beco

Do you feel love only when shit’s going right? Do you withdraw your love when your relationship is tasting a bit like a dirt sandwich? This is called emotional blackmail and it gives love a bad name! But don’t worry , It’s not exactly your fault! And it’s almost certain that we all do it on some level at some point in our journey. This is simply because as a species we’ re built with such a strong sense of self-preservation that when the proverbial shit hits the fan our figh

Oh oh catch that buzz/Love is the drug I’m thinking of… Well, yeah… That is one way to go thru life, eternally hunting for the next high that the first whiff of love invariably generates. Indeed, the early phases of love often feel like a euphoric drug induced state! And there’s actually a good reason for that! According to some super modern research, feelings of love affect the brain in similar ways as powerful pain relievers do! So guess what happens when you get used to th

Everybody loves somebody as the famous song says. Yet everyone we meet when they find out how long we’ve been together wants to know the secret to our love. Well, maybe the secret to love is: (drumroll please!) to love. Wouldn’t it be great if we could establish some kind of even playing ground and all agree on what the meaning of love is? At the very least can we perhaps find a definition of it for ourselves? Like, Is it a feeling? An emotion? A decision? Does love make you

Ever wake up in a funk? I mean the kind of funk where it’s like you don’t even wanna participate in the human race. YOU.JUST.DON’T. Period. When you are in that mood, you just don’t want to speak to anyone, be seen by anybody, or do anything at all, whatsoever… But, you have no choice because you share your life with someone, and they’re in the same house as you, eating at the same table, using the same organic soap, and basically breathing the same air… OY! Now on more typic

So you wanna know what real love really is? Of course you do! But still, we’ll bet that you think 30 years with the same person is a really long time… Well how about forever then? Pretty dang long now isn’t it, right? We feel you! Yet don't you think it's funny (funny weird, not funny Haha!) that the word “forever” is practically built into most marriage vows and most declarations of love? It certainly is in every fairy tale we were raised on! We're lookin' at you Cinderell

We’ve been together for 30 years, fell in love at first sight, and have been working together as well as sustaining an amazing, amazing relationship ever since. We are going to reveal in these blog posts a little of what we’ve done and what we believe has contributed to us becoming the greatest couple on earth! When we say we’re going to show you how we became the greatest couple on earth, we are definitely biased but really it’s our way to say that we believe the kind of re

Welcome to Crila and Momo's Love Blog. Madly in love for 30 years , Yes i said 30 and 7 days a week allways together working and nurturing our relationship to where we are today.We are launching this blog prior to our book coming out early in 2016 to start sharing with you the magic of what, how, where and when we learned to tic in perfect time together.Suscribe to this blog and you will be the first to get news of specal couple building tips and tricks as well as info on the